Ten people the benefits of aging

People often over 30 years after the birth of each one saying that "for one year is more than a year old." Today, however, on "old" concepts and ideas have undergone a tremendous change, and some experts even found that "getting old" means "better." The following is a psychology experts cited the "old old and the good," 10 Reasons.



One, you will be more savvy. "If your life were constantly reading, thinking and creativity, then you have access to knowledge at the same time, intelligence may also be increased." "How a woman aging," an author of the book Luobin He Nigel says. This means that although age may make reasoning, memory, slowing down, but not necessarily reduce the quality of thinking.



Second, you will emerge stronger. Neurologist Dr. Prof. 乔治威兰特 studies have shown that the increase with age, our psychological defense mechanism will magically become more stronger. That is to say, young people tend to rely on strategies to protect themselves, such as denial, rebuttal, etc., while the elderly are more dependent on such humor, altruism, and innovation more scientific, healthy means. "Summon the courage to meet the aging," a book where the author Philip Pu Bergman, said: "Few can see one of the elderly will be slow and crowded elevator anxiety, but the curse of the young father is BS-ing everywhere. "



Third, you feel that they have the power. Most people in the period in which to reach the pinnacle of their career. Psychoanalyst Elizabeth Akin Klaus said: "This is the most competitive age."



Fourth, your marriage better. With the growth of age, your marriage will become more stable, while the marriage the longer you will increasingly value your marriage.



5, are you becoming more and more yourself. Psychologists Madigesen Felder says, "you get older, your personality will often become more clear, you would own thoughts, the love, the hate arguments smoother, you finally understand that you in the end is how the sort of person. "



6, you will get lot of consideration for others. According to a recent survey, accounting for 84% of survey respondents identified: middle-aged people to become more sympathetic. When our children grow up, our love has continued to increase.



7, you will be more tolerant of young people. When you become a grandfather or grandmother, you will be Heart of a share the happiness of family life and the aspirations of the new generation, you will become more tolerant of young people, because you finally realized that the "life is short."



8, your horizons will be more spacious. Geriatrics Robert Bussler said: "If you continue to nurture and develop all of your relationship, then when you get into middle age, you may have a strong network of personal connections with each other ... ... love one another take care of. "



9, are you more motivated to do things. Elderly people often think that their lifetime is short, but this knowledge of, and makes them more aware of the precious time so that they feel a sense of urgency to the cause. Studies have confirmed the interest and pressure may also have Zengshou effect.



10, enrich your spiritual life. This is because you have plenty of time to reflect on the experience of your life, and sum up the results, or the deepening of faith or spiritual leap ...