Saturday, January 23, 2010

Anger may be a way to love a woman business

Fall in love, everything is sweet, but they always have a scene that we often see: the man dating a few minutes late for a woman angry, and without looking left the dating sites, then explained that an apology became a man at this time the "magic weapon." After some sweet talk like "apologize", the woman forgiven men, dating will be continued.

But it's not a woman to embarrass the other side, but women are good at using the same method to run their feelings. The psychologist Carl Jung has pointed out that men have some feminine psychological characteristics, women also have masculine psychological characteristics.
In love this particular context, the full expression of these features out.

The roles of men and women in love not the same as

Fall in love, the men usually play a role in the pursuit of those who expect to pursue the joy of success. Therefore, in the pursuit of the eyes, "she", the more eager to get each other's love, the more prone to nervousness, so they seem more than ever gentle and considerate. At this point, the psychological characteristics of men tend to feminine, better understanding of each other's understanding and tolerance.

While women in love to her boyfriend chose to intentionally or unintentionally, to set some so-called barriers, such as a date can not be late, you must remember her birthday and her favorite food, and even hope that there will be on Valentine's Day surprise, the purpose of just want to know whether her boyfriend to accommodate themselves, more often simply directly Shuashua small test of their patience. When women have a masculine the psychological characteristics, we also will be able to explain why a woman in love are particularly vulnerable to angry.

Fewer tests, more confidence in

In the course of love, women need more sense of security, so I hope men can do they are asking for is so perfect, when the other person can not be done when a woman chose to express their dissatisfaction with anger. Dating late, does not mean that he has ignored you, may really be because the company delayed the meeting the interim there is some time, or encountered a traffic jam on the road there is no way led him to appear in the rendezvous on time; birthday did not you want flowers or a gift, it does not mean his heart did not you, maybe he has better arrangements for ... ... women need not through these "obstacles" to test a man's true for you, not angry at every turn.

Men often say, love angry woman is not beautiful, but not angry, there are a few of the women do? Psychologists also said that a woman angry is because the psychological showed masculine characteristics, while they want to understand each other through this process is not really care about themselves. However, the test of time and time again, it will only undermine the trust between you, because the test will appear in the quarrel, the cold war, misunderstanding, suspicion, this keeps up, no matter how good the feeling would be "destroyed" in their own hands.

Both are in couples in friends, or about to enter the love of men, women, in the face of emotion when the refrain from responding impulsively, do not because a little bit small, with regard to Shuapi Qi, engaged in the Cold War between the way to test your feelings as strong. In particular, women in love, feelings are built on trust-based, vent your anger appeared to be each other's grievances, they could be hidden behind your feelings of distrust and uncertainty, in the event too many times , your emotions are always accompanied by red light, when the time is probably in exchange for one: "Let's break up!"

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