To clear an obstacle to a woman to reach orgasm

I, too passive and shy

This social and cultural impact, for many women believe that sex should be in a strong male-dominated, their enthusiasm will be the other side if the initiative that the debauchery and frivolity, it has only adopted the attitude of resignation with or respond to. Such intangibles to please each other's psychological causes of psychological tension, unable to relax and input would be unable to appreciate the good feelings of peak moment.

To pave the way: a step by step process can help you to overcome the psychological passive shy, first switch off the light in the darkness began to sex, a few times, when you feel completely relaxed and calm when the turn on the light, transferred to the faintest light, and his love; several times, when you meet, and then next time some bright light tone.

Give it a try, to slow down, will feel better and better.

Second, excessive care about their image

For fear of his appearance in the climax of sex, or good-looking enough, or say forget oneself, then make a gaffe manners, but always pay attention to maintaining the image of their own, although this fear is unnecessary, but it is a lot of women's.

To remove obstacles: sex should be passionate and enthusiastic, and in each other's eyes, you are fully invested the most beautiful, but self-conscious posturing can only make the other feel unhappiness.

3, the total worried that their performance is not good enough

Their poor physical or mood, there can not refuse her husband's gentle request, only reluctantly carried out. At the same time do not have to worry about the performance is not good enough because of their own to make each other's disgruntled or concerns, this anxiety, the psychological affect the attitude of your sex life and bring physical pain of uncomfortable feeling.

To pave the way: If you are not feeling well and immediately see a doctor or a good rest, and if he really loves you, should be able to sympathize with you and help you, good emotional communication allows a more harmonious sexual life.

4, with emotion "battle"

Frame just their voices, but also with his resentment, he asked for "affectionate", or feelings of husband and wife have been problems with your comment on his suspicion, distrust and even dislike, these bad feelings will naturally affect the quality of your sex , they might even make you feel even worse for him.

Clear away obstacles: the bad mood away.

5, for fear of pregnancy is always in a tense and cautious in the

This situation in some already have children or have experienced frequent abortion of women in the most common psychological stress and fear can inhibit orgasm reflex, resulting in orgasmic disorder or frigidity.

To pave the way: a small condoms can solve the problem, it brings you sex in addition to safety, there are also free from anxiety psychological calm, and happy sex is inseparable from these two factors