Saturday, December 12, 2009

Marriage, 10 kinds of people most vulnerable to failure

Marriage experts have hundreds of pairs of divorced couples was investigated and found that such a person's marriage is prone to failure:

1, over-temperature diffuse wave of people

He (she) had high expectations of married life, rightPartnerExcessive demands.



Second, excessive reliance on parents who

These people have in mind is not yet mature, marital life, a any problems, to their own parents for help, will not partner together to find solutions.



Third, over-dramatic people

Such people have made intense emotions and reactions, not only to make the other side was "aggressive" stressful, and often the problem occurred, because overreacted lost the opportunity to turn the result will be declared a failed marriage.



4, over-accommodating people

Such people are too accommodating Chongni partner, or minor things are dedicated to do the job, for fear of ill-conceived, over many years after the formation of natural habits. If by chance, "ill-serve" has become the detonator of the friction of conflict.



5, rattle people

Such people can not make the other side has a relatively quiet environment, the course of time so that the other produce fatigue.



6, over the lazy

Such people are too dependent partner, the other party to do everything by himself like a gentleman, his wife waited on a partner to enjoy the same peace of mind, for a long time the other side feel that this is a cumbersome, not appreciate the warmth of life, that marriage boring.



7, over-critical person

Such people are thinking and behavior of any partner, have been making critical comments, so that the other party can not accept.



8, too tight-fisted people

Such people have not only Zifeng very thrifty, but also not to be a partner to do a little better than a regular consumer, entertainment or enjoyment of life should have been deprived of life without the fun.



9, Duochou good "sick" person

These people more common in women. They continued for some imagined "Disease"To her husband complained, complaining, hope to attract the attention of her husband's care, but often self-defeating, so her husband can not stand.



10, demanding perfect person

Such persons of all things, require the highest standards for their own eyes. Because of their own or partner is too high, causing both mental and spiritual are subject to great pressure, a good marriage is not easy to maintain.

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