Tuesday, December 22, 2009

The stronger the more a woman without a man want?

A new era of the new girl, is the current situation has created of their personality, while the girls are also constantly changing in this era, they are beautiful.



It is also the case, they were colorful embellishment to this day and age, girls are so important, then give them a sacred time is it should be a feminist.



No room had no car but will be cooking first met Sally, on the feeling that her beauty and intelligent.



After graduating from college in Sichuan, and she alone one who came to Shanghai. Initially, the sales lady to do is to be two years later, she has become that company's youngest sales manager. Later still, the market manager, media manager, until now, as an investment consulting firm, project director, she is always moving forward in forging ahead fast.



Of course, the career success does not mean that do not understand life, Sally avid traveler, he also played golf, and even playing UFO, she Professor Zeng Yeyu Latin dance, must also flattering. In such a rich and sensuous woman in front of you are saying that God's grace, has allowed her set of beauty, wisdom and virtue.



However, when I looked at her interview with the newspaper, magazines, or the use of a female entrepreneur young Fujie tone of voice asked her, "How do your current income, how many assets", when, Sally went so far as immediately flushed , repeatedly waved denial, "No! I have no house, no car, but I will cook!" It looks like the tense, as if a woman has rooms with cars, but do not cook, will be a great sin.



The original, Sally and her group of similar age, conditions similar to the girlfriend, according to her own words, "They are all good than I am." Unfortunately, the good go well, they are all over 30 are still JobHunting. We all got together, when the most enthusiastic to talk about things, that is in the "Sex and the City" and to participate in "8-minute dating" of women lawyers.



Initially, the women lawyers a target opening date on the right said, "I am a lawyer," "I was an important partner in the firm's", "I am ... ..." As a result, no one interested in her. Later, she had changed to say: "I am, what are not, what is not." Opposite the men did not expect immediate warm up for her eloquent presentation of their own.



"I'm really a woman, the stronger the more unwanted do?" Sally said she did not know that, as editor I do not know.



But we all know is that many ordinary ordinary woman, have a happy married, have their own warm home and children, we are still isolated, wandering in this city.



By a pair of shoulders and I am sure that I rely on every day in the bustling crowd, there are numerous, and Sally as good as a woman, dressed beautiful appearance, it is all supported by hard hearts of many hearts. For the girl who comes from a foreign country, to survive and that "kind of mixed up individual" In particular, there is more pressure, when loneliness comes, in addition to the face of frustration and more look forward to a solid shoulder, you can rely on.



Sally told me that each of Mid-Autumn Festival, a group of girlfriends who will encourage each other, "Come on! Will find a good man!" But to the second year, but still alone one person. I am reminded of another female guest told me, "my male friends a lot, but to acknowledge that he was a boyfriend, it is hard." I thought it was she was demanding, and now think of it, fear is also a frustration have taken lingering.



Love is always lost in space and time distance course, the favorite of men at some point there will always be the right time if not faced an appropriate person, the result is still die a natural death. Sally had a "he" is the French name of the bank's executives, when the company sent him to Paris to work and promotion, love and career, a moment so that he could not choose between.



As if all the naive, and willing to sacrifice for love of the girls, Sally said to him, "You go, your career is more important." And then a full three years, but kept on receiving his postcards and small gifts, but no longer opportunity never met. Still later, in a sun-drenched afternoon, he finally phoned to say: "break up, I know you are tired."



There is no argument, everyone calmly accept the reality. Yes Who said, "If the two love long long But this is not the whole days spent?" How much love, lost in space and time on the distance.



We missed the Red Dust was removed from 27-year-old to 30 years, Sally has been working with the air as if in love. Paris, and sometimes are not always representative of the romantic, as well as breaking and heartbreaking. "In fact, those three years, I really miss a lot of people are in very good condition of the boys, but I would prefer to abandon the section of illusory love, is it really stupid?" Sally asked me melancholy, but I do not know how to respond. Do not be silly, of course Superintendent sally can be sometimes, a marriage certificate Shangju no stopping the wings of a change of heart, let alone paragraph does not earthshaking love remember some of my girlfriend likes to pay two boyfriends at the same time, feeling This is more insurance, at least one road leads nowhere, and there is another one on. In this lack of security, even love, need to back up the era of promises, it is really only a few of the girls can do it. Sally of course is responsible for a good girl, but ended up alone in the city confusing. "I am feeling accountable, who will be responsible for my future life?"



Do not know why, the more outstanding women of the material conditions require less, sally the requirements of an ideal lover also pay more attention to internal rather than external economic conditions. Only in such a crowded city, she was really open-minded they will encounter in life that tolerance of him?

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