Friday, January 22, 2010

9 reciprocity allows you to follow a firm grasp happiness

Happiness can be operated as long as you follow the nine reciprocity.
  
1. Accept their looks. Attractive men and women do not easily compared with those looks, because that will only make their own depression. Smart people should be able to enjoy themselves, accept their appearance.
  
2. Adjust the target to control the desire. The experts found that, down to earth, pragmatic people are often better than those who aim too high is much more fun. Therefore, to live happy, we should learn the actual situation according to their own to adjust the goals, adequate suppression of hearts desire.
  
3. Money can not buy happiness. While wealth can bring people happiness, but it does not mean that the wealth, the more people the more fun. Studies have shown that, once people's basic survival needs are met, every dollar increase in wealth to the happiness itself, no longer has any special significance.
  
4. Do not worry for their own mediocrity. Experience has shown that there is no link of wisdom and happiness, but rather "smart be clever against false", "stupid people have stupid fu" abound.

5. Pleasure can be genetic. Scientists confirmed that a person's sense of happiness with its own personality closely linked, but personality mostly determined by genetics.
  
6. Choose marriage. Psychologists study found that those living in happiness tend to choose marriage, and faithful to their marriage.
  
7. Faith makes a full man. Of faith, no religion than people tend to happiness, because they are easier to find the meaning of life and goals, especially when people in the face of difficulties and stress, belief that people can quickly find the balance point, and actively respond to a variety of adverse situation.
  
8. Pleasure in helping others, and selfless devotion. "Joy through helping others", these studies have shown that those who are willing to make selfless contributions are more likely to be happy.
  
9. Peacefully to meet the aging. The old charm of its own old, happy law of the last one is to learn to peace of mind to enjoy the process of aging.

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