Why do men betray women?

Between men and women, because it had a love and appreciate one another, but in today's society, love is often because of changes in a variety of factors, the most heard, also nothing more than a "betrayal" of the word. Often heard is "I told him (her) is so good, why he (she) must betray me??" Let us discuss the reasons for this inside the bar!



A man betrayed women, although the circumstances vary, but essentially boils down to is usually divided into the following situations:



First, because the interests of betrayal.

Because the interests of betrayal, overriding this reality in today's society which is the only normal thing. Just think, if there are two women at the same time in your life which one can make you less fighting decade or more, allows you to ask for the moon, or a successful career, from the wealthy to worry about for a living, I believe the vast majority of male friends will choose a split with another of the. Although one can say it to bear so-called "morality and conscience," but everyone knows, this is often self-comforting way of saying that people are praised Bao gates Chen Shimei, but the problem is to gate got a few Bao Chen Shimei it?



However, it is impossible that everyone has that kind of luck, but more importantly, this happens in the television drama series of much less than in real life are very often the story in order to cope with the development of specially set up . I believe many people have seen the movie "Tai Chi Master", which Michelle Yeoh Qianli Xun Fu a result, her husband has done a popular sister's door, Liu father son, Ever since, a Tianhundian ... ... the struggle began, but the problem is, a somewhat undistinguished-looking scholar, but also how it is possible to win the heyday of the powerful woman who recognized it? Inside there is no explanation, in fact, can not explain too to understand, but the story is to tie deliberately set up Bale.



However, this includes a rather broad: such as rural cities after breaking into the divorced Zaokangzhiqi modicum of success, because of her fancy chiefs abandon childhood girlfriend, even because there is no leaving the house, etc., etc. ... ...



To sum up, this so-called betrayal, in real life are rare, if the words on the percentage up to no more than 10%; while this man to leave him, it should be a blessing.



Second, because the sense of the betrayal.

This situation in real life, some more common than the former, but another feeling, if not the support of actual conditions is unlikely to last long. Often harsh realities, there is again no food and no sense of the line. Therefore, it occurs more young people under the age of 22 among the In percentage terms, about 15%. Such men are usually of an immature type, as time goes by, will find themselves slowly did what wrong.



　Third, because of betrayal and betrayal.

Here, I do not mean discrimination against women friends. However, to know that in today's era, not only a man would be derailed, women also have this to happen. Event of a derailment, the better the peaceful breakup, there are some, for whatever reason unable to balance their mind, taking a破罐子破摔approach. This situation, it is not a lot, probably it was only 20%. If you give this man characterization of the case, are "mental disorders-type."



Fourth, because life is in the details of the betrayal.

Here, I say a few little things in life:

1, get together with friends, the phone rings, "what Qula! Do not go home so late? Know crazy all day, drinking die you forget it ... ..."

2, friends birthday, want to celebrate, tell a good AA system, but suffer from cash-strapped, but to let go sworn loan contingency ... ...

3, in the unit Leileyitian, suffered his boss's gas, originally intended to return home to relax, a voice sounded: "You who housekeeping of whom, even smaller than you age it is already ... ..."

4, came home after work, whole body fatigue. Fleet girlfriend (or wife) is immersed in the television shows "how did not return until the evening, what he ate, ah ... ..."

5, their own efforts for his girlfriend (wife) to do one thing, but been ignored.

6, when his illness, when his girlfriend (his wife) have been busy their own affairs.

7, in front of friends by his own wife reprove ... ...

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I believe some of the things mentioned above, many of my friends have had personal experience. I have no intention of discrimination majority of female compatriots, but in China for several thousand years of ancient culture inside, the men were given the word too many responsibilities inside. Therefore, many, many things do not as it should do the same.



Both have formed a family friend or already living together men and women, are all the family have the same responsibilities, but as the development of the times, was originally more to be undertaken by women such as housework and other things, and now more and more become a man were inside the thing. I am not against the 80, after 80 years but many girls born after even the most basic household chores are not dry, it is these subtle things, often became a "betrayal" of direct incentives!



Two people come together there are bound to each other attractions, if it is because there is no run-in and separate the words, but also do not exist betrayed. But in real life, often because of some trivial things, making the original harmony between the family or lover started to have a rift.



Psychology mentioned above: "When a man has the impulse to want to talk, he (she) is often the first to think about their closest people, and when the closest people can not accept all this, he (she ) is converted into goals, which often cracks in the marriage or love of the earliest point of attraction ... ... "



Recall that as long as a serious reflection, they found that: In fact, many times a detail above the little things, often the most wounding, but if not able to take the initiative to communicate with a single side of the patient blindly, that is, the beginning of betrayal ... ...



This situation, in real life is the most common, and as a percentage of dollars should be accounted for over 50%.



　Fifth, because some men itself indolent, fickle and betrayal.

This person also has, should be able to account for about 5%, the best way for such a man is near and far of the ... ...



In the time of betrayal by men, the majority of female friends are usually in a painful and just talks were to blame and blame. Of course, the feeling of betrayal was very upset, vent Ye Hao, anger or whatever, is a normal scope, but very few women to reflect on myself.



I write this article, just wanted to tell those in couples in friends and married friends: two people together, are the mutual responsibility and concern, we must understand that even man, who has his weak side. Men can not do without pressure, but did not give the man too much pressure. Communicate more to the concern and caring each other, will reduce the betrayal, in order for the marriage a long time, feeling solid